For those who’re not already hooked on 90 Day Fiancé: Earlier than the 90 Days, you have in all probability heard of it by the use of the Massive Ed and Rose drama.
Ed has acquired lots of criticism for the way in which he handled Rose on his journey to fulfill her within the Philippines. Whether or not it was asking her to take an STI take a look at (as a result of he was suspicious of her previous) or telling her to shave her legs, folks thought he overstepped some boundaries.
Whereas I completely take pleasure in giving Ed shit, there’s one other man on the present who’s exhibited deplorable habits, however someway escaped the media highlight…Till now.
Tom and Darcey Silva began relationship on the earlier season of 90 Day Fiancé: Earlier than the 90 Days, and their relationship left off on an unfinished notice because of the distance (he lives in England and he or she lives in Connecticut).
The present season begins off with Darcey revealing that Tom has been terrible at speaking together with her since she got here again from visiting him within the UK. The truth is, he did not even name her on her birthday.
Darcey then finds out from her sister that Tom has just lately met one other girl and posted images on-line of the 2 of them cuddling up to one another in Nottingham — Tom’s hometown, which he confirmed Darcey round when she visited him within the earlier season.
You’d assume this is able to imply that Tom was completely achieved with Darcey, however no. That is not how poisonous folks work. Tom FaceTimes Darcey and makes no point out of this new girl, however tells her that he will be in New York and desires to fulfill up together with her.
Darcey agrees to fulfill up with him and tells us that she’s gonna present him who’s boss and finish issues with him for good. GO DARCE! Lady energy!
They meet up at a elaborate restaurant in New York, and when Darcey confronts Tom about how he is made no time for her, he turns into extraordinarily defensive and tells her she by no means lets him end speaking and that she’s self-obsessed.
Then, when she brings up the opposite girl, he admits that he is fallen for another person and says that Darcey “did not love him the way in which he wanted to be beloved” and self-sabotaged their relationship. He says he has no romantic emotions for her and “loves her like a sister.”
And that is not all, people. After Darcey says she’s achieved with him and that he means nothing to her proper now (rightfully so after his monstrous habits), he says “I am glad” with a chilly, impassive expression. Then, in a disgusting instance of gaslighting, he tells her to attempt to not wreck her subsequent relationship.
AND IT GETS WORSE. She tells him she’s onto greater and higher issues, and he says, “Did you set weight on?” This was the purpose of no return for me. There is no such thing as a getting back from commenting on a girl’s weight, so as soon as Tom stated that, he was useless to me (not that I favored him all that a lot within the first place).
Darcey storms off, then has a cry in her resort room. All I wanna do is hug her and egg Tom’s home on the identical time.
However alas, this asshole is STILL NOT DONE WITH HER. He surprises her at her home in Connecticut the subsequent day to apologize (ever heard of private house, Tom?) and tries to offer her a letter he wrote. Darcey then closes the door in his face, and he drives away.
Whereas driving again to town, Tom says, “I truly discovered some happiness with Shannon. God is aware of after placing up with Darcey I deserve it.” AKA his apology to Darcey was whole bullshit and he’s nonetheless the identical prick he was 24 hours in the past. Oh, and in a later episode, he FaceTimes Shannon and tells her he is gonna come go to her in Vancouver. WHY IS THIS MAN GETTING MORE SCREEN TIME, TLC?!
Let’s fast-forward to final week’s “Inform All,” the place Tom admits he reached out to not one, however two different women who have been on this season of the present for a date! This was after him and Darcey ended issues, but it surely nonetheless does not assist his shady repute.
Truthfully, folks did not give Tom sufficient shit on the “Inform All.” He deserved to be torn aside for the despicable means he handled Darcey.
I hope this put up spreads phrase of his scumbaggery far and broad! Love ya, Darce.
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